Tuesday, February 26, 2013

There's Nothing a Good Book Won't Fix


There's Nothing a Good Book Won't Fix
I woke up this morning with a book on my mind. There’s a good reason for that. I went to sleep last night with a book on my mind, and it lived in my dreams.

I LOVE books. I love reading. I adore being transported to other worlds, living the life of a main character for a little bit of time, thrilling in the magnificent imagery stuck in my brain by a creative wordsmith; and equally, I love knowing it isn’t real. I can leave it at any chosen moment if it makes me cry, if it creeps me out, if it makes me feel deeper than I have the capacity, at that moment, to bear.  I love these things about books.

Victoria Schwab wrote in her book The Archived, “There’s nothing that a hot shower won’t fix.” I’d add to that thought ~ There’s also nothing a good book can’t fix. (Hold that thought – that’s another topic).

And so, I need to read every day, in almost the way I need to breathe. Reading is an addiction, and a good book is the cure. I made the remark, once, that my “dream job” in a “dream world” would be working in a library. (Hey, surrounded by books, but with no need to make change or have impatient customers standing over me as I learn to use a computerized cash register – easy peasy). But I have often wondered how librarians truly feel about their work – are they frustrated by the hours they spend handling books without being able to open one and read it? Or does the anticipation thrill them? Does even the smell of books, their dusty, musty scent, make a librarian’s brain swell and burst open with buds of happiness? Sort of a “librarian, start your engines” kind of thing.

Which brings on another thought: I frequently see that continuing argument in Twitter-land and elsewhere about e-readers vs. paper and ink books (notice I didn't say "real" books). The groups weighing in on the “I’d rather hold a real book in my hands” side cite the smell and feel of books as a reason to support their argument. The group, generally, who have e-readers don’t spend much time arguing about the upside or the downside; they just read. I represent both sides and feel they are but one side. I have a dusty, musty library in my home, and it is filled with books I have read, some of them over and over. There are famous people who vow that any book worth reading the first time is worth at least a second read. I agree, and I love my home library. I am a keeper of books, never able to give away or get rid of the ones that touched my heart the first time I read them. Having said all that, I love my e-readers. I have a Kindle, a Nook and a Nook Tablet, each serving a different purpose in my reading life. An e-reader is like carrying a library in your purse, and its shelves are crammed with books for any mood or fantasy or place (and no need to worry about running out of shelf space). The convenience is amazing, as is the ease of turning pages when you need a second hand to do something else (feed a baby, hold a coffee mug, eat a cupcake, the possibilities are endless). I say that reading is reading … reading is about words forming pictures in your head, the transportation to another planet, the escape to peace or the bold daring of adventure … not the manner of serving them up.

We are a family of readers and writers. My dad came home from WW2 with the desire to write a book about his Pacific Theatre war experiences. Though he never wrote the book, the local historical society published his lengthy memoir in one of their collections. My mother tells of making up stories and illustrating them with a friend when she was young. She wrote her biography for her children, grandchildren and greats in 2007 when she was 85. My sister journals and will one day write the story of her first husband’s courage in the face of cancer. I wrote and illustrated stories my whole life and enjoyed the one class I took in writing, which resulted in short stories. My son grew up reading comics and graphic novels and illustrating story ideas; he’d love to co-author/illustrate a graphic novel one day. My cousin Matt is a published author of essays and non-fiction. When Courtney began writing for teens, I entered the world of writing and publishing with her and find it a delight every step of the way. It is the ultimate joy for this reader who would really write if only she could. The author community is a close-knit one; it is filled with people united in their love of words, who are always encouraging each other, who nudge other writers to raise their own personal bar, to move from one level of achievement to the next and who genuinely appreciate each other. I get to live my dream, vicariously, through my daughter’s ready imagination and creativity! I am very blessed and thankful.

A new pleasure ~ reading an author’s acknowledgement page and knowing some of the writers mentioned!

And now, let me get back to that book, the one I woke up with this morning!

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Ten Things I Say Daily


TEN THINGS I SAY Daily

  1. Where did I put my phone? (uh, it fades into the furniture, right?)
  2. Have you seen my book (Nook, Kindle etc)? (Upstairs? Down?)
  3. Are these dishes clean? (darn it- unload the dishwasher!)
  4. Text me when you get there! (to anyone in the family!)
  5. Good Boy! (to the doggie, not the hubs)
  6. Where do you want to eat? Uh uh, it’s YOUR turn to pick. (approaching the *Big City*)
  7. I forgot (meant, wanted etc) to tell you that … (fill in the blank).
  8. Did you pick up the keys? (usually, after we reach the locked car)
  9. Is the coffee made? (before going to sleep, because it is a Requisite for Morning)
  10. I made a list for … (I live by lists)

           If there is an eleventh thing, it probably involves coffee!

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

2013 is HERE!

Our family had a wonderful 2012 Christmas! Ron and I gathered with his mom and our son and his family on the Saturday before Christmas. We enjoyed a meal at Cracker Barrel (because cooking a BIG meal is not high on our list of priorities!) and then went to my son's home in another city. It was so much fun seeing the grands open their presents and visiting with the family there. A six year old and a thirteen year old add joy and pleasure to the Christmas excitement!

We had an uplifting church service Sunday morning, worshipping with friends and gathering at the altar to pray for the physical needs of several members of our church family. We should never be surprised when our prayers are answered! It was particularly joyful to have our daughter and her husband in church with us on this Sunday-before-Christmas morning. It has been many years since Sunday was not a "work" day for them, as they served churches themselves.

After church my husband and I finished last minute packing for the trip to Tennessee that afternoon. We were driving to my family home where my mother would again host us for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. At 90, she would find it very taxing to decorate and prepare all the food, so everyone had planned the menu and contributed to the effort. It was a famous tradition to hear my husband utter his annual complaint when packing the car. "I don't think I'm going to get it all in!"

But of course, he did!

I woke up on Christmas Eve to a fun gathering around the kitchen table - the quiet before the storm - when my sister, her husband and my daughter and husband arrived. We spent the day preparing food for that night and for Christmas Day when more family would arrive to share it with us. I cherished this time together - a time of easy-going preparation and teasing and fun.

"I know what YOU'RE getting for Christmas!"

It has been ten years since my dad traditionally called to tease us with this phrase, but we've all taken up the slack and that phrase is bandied about among our different families with a great deal of sly looks and glee and laughter!

There was some good-natured (I hope) grumbling about what time we'd get up on Christmas morning. Long gone are the days when little kids came excitedly into our bedroom WAY too early to shake us awake and get Christmas morning started! 

There are stockings (of course, Santa still comes!) to check out first as we gather around the fireplace in our pjs - drinking coffee and eating our traditional sausage pinwheels, breakfast casserole and fresh fruit - and then a rush to get showers and get Christmas dinner on the table before more family arrives. We made it easy on ourselves in planning our menu, but it is still a busy task to prepare dinner for that many.

It was a beautiful day, a fun family time, a day of thanks and appreciation for our many blessings and  the birth of our saviour.

The "party" broke up by early afternoon due to the drastic forecast. After weeks of foretelling a dry and non-white Christmas Day, newscasters suddenly threw words like "blizzard" and "deep snow" into their newscast. Ron left to get back home to KY because he couldn't afford to get stranded in TN. Courtney and Adam left to visit his parents in another area of KY, where hopefully the heavy snow would skip. The cousins also left. By evening left-overs, only my sister and her husband, who were spending the night, remained with Mom and me. I had previously made plans to spend the rest of the week in TN to de-decorate the house! I looked forward to a quieter time spent with my mother.

The snow came ... to my home in Kentucky! Lot's of deep, blowing snow. It started by early evening, fortunately after Ron arrived safely home. Because it was dark, no one actually got to "see" the blizzard - a first for our area. But the snow was heavy on the ground and every roof, limb and road the next morning ... and beautiful! (very thankful for snowplows and their brave drivers!) I only got to see the pictures!

In Tennessee we had a few flurries!

By the time I returned homethe following weekend, there was still thick snow on the ground, but the roads were clear. All the beauty and none of the hassle, to my way of thinking!

As I close out 2012, I can recall many wondeful moments, some not so good and some in between. But that's the way life is, isn't it. The good mixed in with the bad, the not-so-good and the not-so-bad, as the joy and tragedy of just breathing blends together in a patchwork of living. I want to be a "see-through-er" - someone who is capable of seeing through whatever the difficult circumstances may be to the joy and/or healing that is beyond the immediate. I want to live my life in a such a way that it shows my faith, that my choices become a testimony to someone else.
To choose the positive over the negative and to allow my voice be one that is pleasing to Him. Each day, I want to choose LIFE, not just living.

This is my hope and prayer for 2013.